Stressed out? A G-rated “cuddle party” may help
Stressed out? A G-rated
Stressed out about the economy? Need a hug? How about snuggling with strangers to relax? That's what dozens of people are doing atPublished: August 20, 2009
Stressed out about the economy?
Need a hug?
How about snuggling with strangers to relax?
That’s what dozens of people are doing at “cuddle parties”.
It’s something that started and New York and moved west.
At a recent Cuddle Party in Oakland, California, Marcia Baczynski is welcoming a new Cuddle Party crew.
Baczynski co-founded a Bay area cuddle party faction.
“The feeling we want to create at a cuddle party is a sense of fearlessness and fun”, she explains.
There are rules.
Lots of them.
Nobody gets naked.
Respect people’s privacy.
Be hygienically savvy. Occasionally taking a shower.
No alcohol, no drugs.
Ask before you touch.
The “high” comes from spooning.
Ice breakers help the strangers get to know each other and communication is critical.
Who comes to a cuddling party?
You might be surprised.
Vin De Silva ia a math professor.
“Everyone here was a stranger to me when I came here”, De Silva said. “But I miraculously feel quite safe.“
Billy Andrade is a cuddle party regular.
“A cuddle party is more like a refuge or a sanctuary for those who are looking for touching or nurturing,“ he explains.
Hard times have motivated more people to embrace this trend.
It’s a good place to network.
Careers have launched in the throws of hugs.
“It’s been really interesting cause I know people have found work they’ve found roommates they’ve found furniture”, Baczynski said. “It’s almost like a social in-person version of Craigslist sometimes.“
How much does it cost to cuddle?
Most parties will set you back between $20 and $40.
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